In the same edition of The Observer which featured articles about drugs on the dark net and the UK’s head of the drugs disruption unit, was a gem by Anonymous.
Anonymous’s article is called ‘I like the way MDMA gives you a deep sense of connection to your friends’.
A better title would have been ‘Why I — and many others — take cocaine’.
Some of what he says is breathtaking and not in a good way (emphases mine):
I probably take class-A party drugs such as MDMA or cocaine once a fortnight, and have done since I was 16 (I’m 27 now). I like the way cocaine gives you a new lease of life, like a mushroom in Super Mario, to carry on with a night out. I like the way MDMA softens the edges of reality and gives you a deep sense of connection to your friends that you can never get when you meet them for dinner and they moan about their jobs. I like how when you’re coming down from a pill another person’s touch has a comforting, almost electric capacity. If you’re suffering from exhaustion, anxiety or stress, recreational drugs can give you a bit of a leg-up.
On the other hand:
Drugs can also be a total pain. Ecstasy can make you feel like you’re floating in a cloud, but just as often it’s an admin nightmare: you come up at different times from your friends; only half the people in a group remembered to get sorted and there’s endless hassle at a party trying to get more. Even when you’re having a great time, there’s a self-doubting internal monologue running through the whole process …
There’s the key to the whole problem: self-doubt. Entirely normal for that age group, but why do so many young people evade the issue and instead get completely out of their box?
Anonymous doesn’t think the British public are honest and open enough about drugs. I suspect they are not, but Anonymous does go a bit too far in the opposite direction. And most of what he has to say hardly applies to everyone who’s ever fallen on the dark side of drugs.
He describes himself and his friends:
In my demographic – under 30, living in London, job in the creative industries, disposable income – almost everyone is a recreational drugs user.
Where I grew up in south London, it was pretty uncommon to find someone who didn’t at least smoke weed. The children of more middle-class parents were taking cocaine, ecstasy, ketamine and mephedrone almost every weekend. These were not reprobates ruining their lives: they were intelligent, bright people who got three As at A-level and went to good universities ...
In some families drug use had less stigma than smoking.
At university, he enjoyed mephedrone — a legal drug no longer available:
Mephedrone was incredibly cheap – about a tenner a gram – and incredibly available. You could order it with next-day delivery to your university PO box. Mephedrone was a drugs phenomenon of which I have never seen the likes before or since. Everyone started doing it …
On nights out during this time, everyone would be raging – making out with one another, dancing with total abandon. But the comedowns were immediate and severe, far worse than ecstasy. By 4am people would be lying on the floor sharing the most intimate and personal shames and secrets, as if the drug was somehow compelling them to be honest. Some people called it a truth serum. Friendships were forged in the hot irons of that emotional exposition, as were the most horrendous hangovers.
Mephedrone was banned within two years of it taking off. People talk a lot about one legal high being banned only for another to take its place, but the real legacy of mephedrone was to numb the stigma of harder drugs. By the time I left university, many of the drug abstainers who had tried mephedrone became relaxed about most illegal drugs, too.
This is part of the issue I have with legalising drugs. We do not know what the full effects of many of these compounds, natural or synthetic, will be in the long run. Therefore, there is no justification in being ‘relaxed’ about it.
Even in the short term, he concedes they inhibit normal functioning for the next few days, which is why he takes cocaine:
Ecstasy and mephedrone make it pretty hard to get much done in the days after taking them. You can’t regularly use them and be a successful, functioning adult, so they become a rarer treat once you leave student life. In their 20s most people are overworked: they have second jobs and work incredibly long hours. If they’re going to go out on a Friday night they need a pick-me-up. And that is why cocaine remains the young professional’s drug of choice.
He says:
I also appreciate that’s it’s easy to be blasé about drug use when you’re a well-adjusted middle-class white guy who has never been stopped by the police and has a distant non-social relationship with their drug dealer. For many people, drugs aren’t something they can dip in and out of and separate from their lives. People entangled in the economic and legal realities of drugs – dealers, those convicted of possession, addicts – don’t have the luxury of my relaxed attitude.
Wow, just wow! The arrogance!
A reader, fictionfanatic, replied in the comments below with his own, opposite, experience:
I found this article excruciatingly painful to read. Not because the article is poorly written, in fact, I found the author to be incredibly articulate, but because I have twice overdosed on class A drugs and am now five years in recovery from active addiction …
In the early years of my using I had some wonderful experiences on drugs. I agree with a great deal that this writer has to say and I particularly support his argument that drugs should no longer be the ‘taboo’ subject that it is today.
However, there is one sticking point for me. The reference the writer made to drugs giving him the confidence, the laughs and the energy that he doesn’t believe he already possesses.
As an addict I became painfully aware of what drugs had taken away from me when I got clean …
Various drugs do indeed boost confidence, increase energy levels and lighten the mood, however, if a person requires a chemical to do this then even the most casual user is denying themselves the opportunity to have fun, gain confidence and increase energy levels without the use of a drug. I learnt this when I fell threw the doors of a rehab and realised the overly confident, work hard/play hard exhibitionist had disappeared with the class A’s and I was left to rebuild the anxious, self-conscious, shattered shell of a human being that had relied for too many years on drugs to help me be somebody I was not.
Five years later I am now naturally confident and I laugh more than I ever did. I still go out all night sometimes, but I don’t have to pay for it with two days in bed or ‘suicide Tuesdays’.
… drugs don’t add to our life experience, they merely mask what isn’t naturally there.
And, one final point… I have never, ever, ever met anyone that is better company when they are on coke. Not once!
I agree. I remember a few acquaintances from the 1980s who took coke. They just were not very nice to be around. They were abrupt, picked arguments and became aggressive. Everything was all about them. Cocaine is not a ‘nice’ drug.
Speaking of the 1980s, I remember reading a lengthy first-person magazine article at that time about a guy from New York who was absolutely broken through cocaine use.
At first, he had it all: great job, superb salary, stunning girlfriend and a beautiful flat. He and his girlfriend eventually started spending more and more on coke because their highs were no longer as long-lasting.
The ending was chilling. He and his girlfriend started having violent arguments. She left him and went into rehab. He stayed behind in the flat. He was having trouble making his mortgage payments. His boss was on the verge of firing him.
The last two days he spent in the flat involved his crawling around on hands and knees sniffing his carpet for any remaining coke dust that might be there. Finally, a friend of his stopped by. The addict fell into his friend’s arms crying like a baby.
By then, he had no job. He hadn’t a penny left. He’d lost the woman he loved.
He had allowed cocaine to destroy him and a beautiful life.
He came out the other side and wrote the article post-rehab. He said he would never be able to recapture what he once had. He was working a rather low-paid job in another industry. But, he said, at least he was clean after a few years of rehab and therapy. He wanted to stay that way but was worried about what the future would hold.
He hoped his story would serve as a warning against drug use, especially cocaine.
No good can come of drugs, particularly this one.
18 comments
October 16, 2014 at 10:28 pm
undergroundpewster
No good ever comes in the long run. In the short run, users all say they do drugs because they enjoy it, it makes them feel better, etc. In the end everybody else sees the ruined relationships, failed careers, messed up children, etc.
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October 16, 2014 at 10:33 pm
churchmouse
Yes, completely agree — and thanks! Eleven out of ten for that comment.
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October 17, 2014 at 4:55 pm
The True Light!
Drugs of many kinds, both prescription and illicit, can easily become yet another tool of the evil one to derail us from our Godly path. The son of our Vice President just admitted to his cocaine use in yesterday’s news.
Reports of a month or so back stated that heroin usage is on the rise in America. Satan never sleeps, and neither does his trickery! Be prudent in the use of legal medications, and stay away from the illegal drugs and those who use and/or peddle them!
TTL
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October 17, 2014 at 9:10 pm
churchmouse
Splendid advice for everyone. Thank you, TTL!
Yes, I can well imagine that heroin use is on the rise once again.
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October 20, 2014 at 4:51 pm
The True Light!
We can see many immoral and unethical practices on the rise in the world today as we move even further away from the righteousness of our Lord!
Get ready, for if we don’t turn back, God may “wash His hands” of many nations and peoples…
TTL
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October 21, 2014 at 12:30 pm
churchmouse
That possibility crosses my mind nearly every day.
The hardness of heart — along with immoral and unethical practices — on display in our world today is shocking.
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October 21, 2014 at 5:31 pm
The True Light!
And, sadly, it has always been the case with humankind. In Genesis 6:6, scripture says that every thought of man was only to do more evil, and it grieved God that He had even made man on the earth.
But being that God IS love, He never would have left us without a way in which we could reconcile ourselves to Him. And this came by way of His Son, Jesus Christ!
Praise be to the greatness of God…and woe to all who still turn their backs on Him today!
TTL
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October 21, 2014 at 7:58 pm
churchmouse
Thank you, TTL!
Yes, you are referring to the Flood and the subsequent rainbow serving as a symbol of the covenant that He would no longer destroy us — in toto — through a natural disaster.
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October 22, 2014 at 8:56 pm
The True Light!
Absolutely right! However, we cannot forget that all of God’s promises will be kept. That includes the one which says all things will stand in judgment by Him one day, and each one will receive that which he deserves…good AND bad!
Walk in the Light and love God. Love others as yourself. Those who follow the law do not need to fear the Law Giver!
TTL
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October 23, 2014 at 10:42 pm
churchmouse
How true! And this is where prayer, Bible study and worship fit into the picture. The problem for many people, though, is giving up the world. The pressure to conform is becoming ever greater.
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October 24, 2014 at 5:36 pm
The True Light!
Even those who call themselves “Christians” want to live with one foot in the church, and one in the world! They find it hard to fully commit to God’s word and will.
We cannot be that way. Either we have faith enough to give ourselves completely to the Lord, and hope for things eternal, or we are by default without Him in this world!
What a terrible circumstance to find one’s self…
TTL
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October 24, 2014 at 8:50 pm
churchmouse
Just so, TTL.
And our Lord warned that this life would not be easy. We can see what He and the Apostles (except for John) suffered.
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October 27, 2014 at 5:14 pm
The True Light!
Yet, even the secular historians have noted the fact that when faced with extreme, even fatal circumstances, Christians held to their faith more stubbornly than expected!
A great testament to faith for us all! In our great nations, we have some religious freedoms, even if they are coming under attack more so these days.
But I can imagine that it was so much more difficult for God’s children in the ancient world! May God give us all the fortitude to stand up for Him no matter what…
TTL
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October 27, 2014 at 9:04 pm
churchmouse
Yes, I agree totally. Many thanks for that excellent observation, TTL.
How many other faiths had martyrs?
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October 28, 2014 at 9:31 pm
The True Light!
I would have to check into it, but not many I would say…thank you as always, churchmouse!
TTL
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October 28, 2014 at 9:35 pm
churchmouse
I meant it rhetorically (and probably should have said so). My point was to imply ‘few, if any’.
Thank you for the enjoyable and profitable exchange, TTL! Enjoy your evening!
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October 29, 2014 at 7:06 pm
The True Light!
And the same to you, my friend!
TTL
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October 29, 2014 at 9:10 pm
churchmouse
Thank you! 🙂
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